Sex and Relationship Therapy in London and Online.

Hi, I’m Zoe, a COSRT Certified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and Registered Mental Health Nurse with over 18 years of professional experience. Welcome to The Sex Therapy Space – a safe and confidential place for individuals and couples to explore intimacy, relationships, and sexual wellbeing.

Sex & Relationship Therapy Tailored to You

I offer sex therapy and relationship therapy both face-to-face and online. Whether you’re looking for support as an individual or a couple, therapy can help you:

Improve intimacy and communication
Overcome sexual difficulties and barriers
Rebuild confidence in your relationships
Achieve a more satisfying and connected sex life

Why Choose The Sex Therapy Space?

At The Sex Therapy Space, we believe that sex, intimacy, and relationships are essential aspects of health. Just like physical or mental health needs, your sexual wellbeing deserves care and attention. I provide a supportive environment where you can work through challenges and develop healthier, happier connections.

Specialist Support for Cancer & Intimacy

I have a special interest in helping those affected by primary or secondary breast cancer. I offer low-cost sessions for individuals navigating issues such as:

Sex and intimacy after cancer
Self-confidence and body image
Dating and relationships during or after treatment

Together, we can work towards reclaiming pleasure, confidence, and connection in your life.

My Services

Vaginismus
Dyspareunia
Painful Sex
Vulvodynia
Loss of Sexual Desire
Changes in desire/arousal/ drive
Unable to orgasm (Anorgasmia)
Performance anxiety
Erectile Dysfunction
Rapid (Premature) Ejaculation
Delayed Ejaculation
Body Image Issues
Sexual Trauma / Abuse
Anxieties around sex
Sexual Health
Sexual Identity
Compulsive sexual behaviour
Physical illness impacting sex
Cancer Diagnosis

Sex Therapy

Strengthening your relationship
Communication difficulties
Frequent arguments
Conflicts
Changes in sexual desire/arousal
Lack of intimacy
Mismatched libidos
Intimacy/ connection issues
Sexless relationships
Infidelity / affairs
Betrayals
Trust issues
Financial stress
Life transitions - considering/becoming parents, careers, living together.
Living together and merging new families
Fertility
Infertility
Child loss
Ending a relationship / separation
Divorce

Relationship Therapy

Free Consultation

I offer a free 20 minute discovery call to see if therapy is for you and to explore if we are a good fit to work together. There is no obligation, just a chance for you to see how it feels.

My approach to therapy is both humanistic and integrative, meaning I tailor our work to your unique needs and personality. I don't believe in a "one-size-fits-all" solution; instead, I draw from various psychological theories, tools, and techniques to ensure our sessions are as effective and creative as possible. I'm passionate about helping you overcome barriers, enhance communication, and rediscover pleasure and connection. After all, healthy relationships and fulfilling sexual experiences are crucial for our overall well-being.

I often integrate person-centered therapy with psychodynamic theory, exploring how past experiences shape your current thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Attachment theory helps us understand how early relationships influence your life today, and I always maintain a trauma-informed approach. For specific sexual dysfunctions, I might incorporate Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and I sometimes use Gestalt Therapy to help you focus on present feelings.

Beyond my therapy practice, I'm also a Senior Mental Health Nurse with over 18 years of experience in both NHS and private sectors. This extensive background includes supporting individuals through complex mental health challenges, enduring mental illness, and crises, as well as working extensively with Autism and ADHD.

About Me

My Qualifications

Adaptive Mentalization Based Integrative Treatment (AMBIT) Anna Freud Centre London.
Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapy. LDPRT and Middlesex University. Level 7
MSc Clinical Mental Health Sciences Research. University College London. Level 7
Clinical Aspects of HIV. University College London. Level 7
Qualified Nurse Mentor. Mentorship in Professional Practice. University of Bedfordshire.
DipHE Mental Health Nursing. University of Bedfordshire.

My Memberships

College of Sex and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
Nursing and Midwifery Council (NMC)
Royal College of Nursing (RCN)

Training

Infertility Specialist
Rainbow Baby Specialist
Safeguarding Adults and Children Level 3

At The Sex Therapy Space, I believe therapy should be accessible, transparent, and easy to understand. That’s why I’m upfront about session structure and fees, so you know exactly what to expect from the start.

Session Length & Frequency

Each session lasts 50 minutes.
Sessions are usually scheduled on the same day and time each week or fortnight, depending on your needs and availability.

Recommended Approach

To build a solid foundation, I typically recommend starting with six sessions. This allows us to:

Develop a trusting therapeutic relationship
Begin working through your goals in a structured way
Lay the groundwork for long-term progress

After these initial sessions, we’ll review your progress together and decide whether to continue weekly or move to fortnightly sessions based on what feels right for you.

Therapy Fees

Online £80
In-person £90
Online £100
In-person £110
Individual and Couples Online £50
I offer low cost psychosexual and relationship therapy sessions for anyone who has ever be diagnosed with primary or secondary breast cancer and their partners.
I provide training and teaching in Sex, Relationships and Mental Health. I offer bespoke packages to the needs of companies, establishments and charities.
Please contact me for further information.
I offer mentoring and supervision for mental health nurses on both a one to one and group setting.
Please contact me for more information.
I offer consultancy on all areas relating to sex, relationships, intimacy and mental health.
Please contact me for further details.

Low Cost Cancer Therapy

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Following my own cancer diagnosis and experience, I understand the unique challenges that can arise around sex, intimacy, and relationships during and after treatment. That’s why I now offer low-cost sessions for anyone who has been diagnosed with primary or secondary breast cancer — whether you’re currently in treatment, in remission, or navigating survivorship. These sessions are available for both individual therapy and couples therapy with partners.

Rebuilding Intimacy & Connection After Cancer

A cancer diagnosis does not have to mean the end of a fulfilling sex life or deep emotional connection. Therapy can help with:

Adapting to physical changes after treatment
Managing the effects of cancer therapies on intimacy and desire
Rediscovering pleasure and self-confidence
Rebuilding closeness with your partner after focusing on survival

I provide a safe, compassionate, and confidential space to explore what’s possible for you, supporting your journey toward healing, confidence, and reconnection.